Ryan,
I've read your post about a million times now.
You mean the whole thing makes sense and it doesn't, at the same time? ~chuckles~
It wlould be difficult for me, not being a native speaker of English, to decide when a construction like the 'died-in bed' would be right. I wish I had some concrete rule to help me, since my common sense doesn't seem to be helping right now. I still don't like either sentence! (that's not your fault, though... lol)
Thanks a lot for your post
Miriam