May we also discuss the grey areas of what is right. Doing right from what I believe is doing something for the common good. If we put the statement of abortion there-- Is having an intentional abortion, right? It maybe doing good for the woman bearing the unborn child because doing it will not disrupt her career, or her school, or her family or her other activities. It may also be good because pregnancy was a result of rape. It may also be good for the parents (of the woman) who will not have to bear the shame or responsibility of the coming child. But it is not good for the unborn child because it's life is being cut off.
I also believe that the Law on Legal Abortion was in place because those who made this law have regarded human life and respected the rights of the woman but they have not really respected the RIGHT TO LIFE. They have made a law because the fertilized egg is not considered human yet, until it bore its features. Where else does a human being comes, except from a fertilized egg?
I would like to make conclusions/suggestions on the following:
Those who are contemplating on having sex: I hope you do it with the right person and at the right time. There are consequences of the act, so please choose the right person who can be a good father to a possible child. At the right time, is a time that is appropriate to understand and be responsible of the implications of the act be it-- STDs or pregnancy. And do it in moderation.
To those who are now having an unwanted child:
1- Delay your decision for an abortion.
2-Seek help from a counselor. In that way, you can best understand your present situation and I hope you will understand that abortion is not the only way out in a complex problem. There are other options. That bearing the child for 9 months is not too long to wait.
3-An ultrasound will help to see if really you have a baby inside you or a blighted ovum or an H-mole in which instances there are positive HCG results.
4-Pray if you have a God. Or search in your heart that what you are doing is really right.
And I would like to share with you what Kahlil Gibran said:
."..Speak to us of children:
And he said:
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house your bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of to-morrow, which you cannot visit not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the Archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable."
Our children are a continuation of our ownselves. Please choose life.
Again (I'm not yelling,I'm only stressing my point), MAY GOD BLESS ALL THOSE WHO SEEK ABORTION.