Young Californian
I am sorry you found my post insulting; it was certainly not intended to be so. As this is not the right thread to talk about issues of American identity I shall not do so; I have however started another thread on the subject in the Cultural Anecdotes, Similarities and Differences section to which I hope you will contribute.
What you may have detected in my post is my frustration at people’s insistence on dwelling too much on their history, whether they perceive it to be one of glory or oppression. History is important, but rarely objective; it is a cliché that history is written by the winners, but the losers have their version too.
The Holocaust is, I think, remembered for special reasons. The evidence was there and irrefutable – the death factories and the written orders – and journalists were there with the liberating troops. The guilty were prosecuted and their victims gave testimony.
I think the question I am asking is: “How long should tragedies be remembered with bittereness?”
A thousand years and more ago the English lived in constant fear of raids by marauding Scandinavians. I expect tales were told for many years after the last raid. But no one nowadays harbours resentment against Norwegians, Danes and Swedes or demands apologies from their governments. A ridiculous example you may say; well perhaps, but I hope it makes a point.
I think that any emigrant community runs the risk of defining itself in terms of its oppresion, by which I mean dwelling too much on the reasons for the migration. Their history has become crystallised at the moment of departure, while the countries they left have changed.
You said in your very first post:“the issue is a bit personal to me” and I think that goes to the heart of the matter. As a descendant of an Armenian you want the Armenian Genocide to be fact and need it to be fact. Janissary (I assume by his name he is Turkish) wants the Armenian Genocide to be fiction and needs it to be fiction. Neither of you will ever persuade the other.