When I was a child,there was a good deal of adult conversation to the effect that children had to learn to be unselfish. It was a word that I came to dislike intensely because it always turned out to involve something I did not want to do and for the doing of which there were no visible rewards.
Is it:
(1) I came to dislike (the word) intensely+
because it always turned out to involve something...
or
(2)
Because it always turned out to involve something...+it was a word that I came to dislike intensely
?