uhm.. actually i meant: 'ye' for 'moon' and 'kong' for 'light' --> ye+kong = moonlight. sorry i dont know how to spell in chinese correctly. am taking a mandarin course now
as a matter of fact, i also agree with the 'sweating' athmosphere
in my opinion, being IN love, is something that you DONT do. it just happened and there's nothing you did to make it happen. and all yekong said was correct, so it happens also in China huh?
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and marriage is certainly a responsibility. but responsibilities are something we CHOOSE to DO.