Experiencing is not always pleasant. It comes from ordinary scene and it can leads to surprising. Surprise can give a lot of several feelings joy, sorrow and more depend on a person.
It’s a story about my uncle experienced when he was young. Once he had a business commuted a lot between city and country. One week he stays in country and other week in city. One day as usual he had to drive to country for his business. After he finished his work, he drank one beer at meal time. It was his old habit of his. When he get drunk, he becomes to happiest person in the world. My uncle walks back home and singing. He was enjoying the moon light, enjoying the fresh air and enjoying his life. He was imaging how good to be in the country, no neon signs, no traffic, no noise and no building. Suddenly he had to go to bathroom, in country bathroom was every where. He choose a tree and pee but he relized a stranger was next to him also taken pee. The stranger looked mid-age of fifty and he was also drunken. The stranger was smiling with his eye closed. My uncle thought it was a really really funny situation. Two happy drunken men using same tree at the same time. The stranger tried to talk to him and my uncle answer. They both walk and make conversation about good life they both having. The stranger’s name was Mr. kim. He told my uncle about how he make fortune by own effort and now he has loving family. Mr. kim said he will have a big party at his house tomorrow evening. My uncle invited to the party and kindly explained the way of his house. He thought town was very small so everyone was neighbors and friends, also it was very easy to find someone’s house in country town. He accepted delightfully. Next day after his work he remembered yesterday happening on way his home. He thought he could enjoy the rest of day at Mr. kim’s party. He drived to Mr. kim’s house imaging how he will be look happy when he get there. My uncle couldn’t wait to meat with him again. He was excited. But when he got there he was about to faint. The party was funeral of Mr. kim’s own. My uncle was invited to a funeral from a ghost. He hear that he past away 3 days ago for sudden death. Mr. kim was well-know in town as kind of person who loved to talk and loved inviting people. The whole town was mourning his death. He thinks Mr. kim help him to make some friends in boring country life at his “party”. My uncle still remembered like it happened yesterday.
If one feels lonely, then other one try to introduce some friendly people. My uncle learn this when he got invited to a funeral and as a result some of us can experience a matter beyond the imagination of those who have not experienced it