eg " Kelly :I said a lot of things to you that day that I didn't mean. I'm really sorry, Bill.
Bill :Don't be. I had it coming. "
eg " When he is back, please have him call me "
Well, I think it is better to remember the sentence structure rather than trying to find reason with it. As far as I know putting ' ing ' just to give a sense of continuation.
eg I saw him come out from that store the other day.
eg I saw him coming out from that store the other day.
Both are just Ok, but the second refers to the continuous action of coming out