Amanar  +  456611 Mon, 24 Dec 07 10:28 AM hi everybody, it's a pretty difficult question, i've put this subject to talk about it because i've seen some parents don't really know how to raise their children, there are some parents who don't care about their child, others who lack tenderness and love to their children and others who aren't aware of the necessity of playing with their child so that they show him their love and let him improve his capacities. there are a lot of things to talk about in this matter, and i think it's really importnat because it's the soure of many adult's problems. Let's me know what you think? Amanar Joined on Thu, Dec 6 2007 morocco New Member 09

	Dew 2007  +  456689 Mon, 24 Dec 07 03:27 PM Yes, the question of upbringing the children is vital. And it has become even more impotant lately. Unfortunately some parents don't pay attention to the children and don't want to spend enough time with them. As a result the children absorb whatever they see around them and mostly bad things. And what is more dangerous such children won't bring up their own chidren in future... Is there a way out? Dew 2007 Joined on Sun, Jun 17 2007 Russia Contributing Member 1,352 Keep wondering!

	CARAMEL  +  574019 Tue, 07 Oct 08 07:26 AM I think this is an important topic to discuss about especially for those who don’t give enough care and attention to their children and for those who let their children to spend the time with nannies or servants; giving excuses like working or having social activities. Additionally, children are not just needed care or love when they’re young but also need advices and someone to hold their hand and lead them to the right direction. If they feel insufficiencies from their parent, they will seek from another person to occupy this feeling of love and care. The bad side of this, if this ‘another person’ is playing with this child, he might exploit the innocence of this child to do awful acts, and he might threaten him or implant atrocious ideas in this child mind. This usually happen if the parent put too much trust on their children or they don’t ask about their friends or they don’t check out their activities at school. When the children feel that there are not limits or restrictions on their actions, they do whatever they want or desire. How beautiful it is when the parent are the best friends of their children, when their children open their hearts and tell their secrets only to their parent, when they only seek advices from their parent, when their parent let them do what they want but give them the guidance and lead them to the correct way to achieve their ambitions, when their parent always listen to them and give attention to them even in busiest times!! Finally, don’t blame your children for what they do, but blame yourself for not being with them in times they need you. Try to break down this long bridge which you created between you and your children. CARAMEL Joined on Sun, Sep 28 2008 Junior Member 70