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“What is the meaning of the best teacher?”whenever I have any doubts about study and learning ,I can not help asking that question.”Are my mama and papa the excellent teacher for me？”or”on my road to grow-up,did they really play positive influence on me in all respects?” after my careful consideration I have to admit that the answer is “NO”.
Parents impart us a veriaty of idea and most of which is right in appearance but totally wrong in root.Because the different growing backgrounds between our parents and us,their experience,served as guide in their life,are not appropriate for their children in many circumstances.Take myself for example,whenever I chat with my father,he would like to tell me how fierce the competition is in the morden society and how I can throw myself into some work ,which enable me to make big money though I have little interest in .Of course, I can understand his feelings since in his mind fortune,along with status and fame, is the only thing can provide me the access to happiness.Unfortunately,from my point of view happiness is just a state of emotion,often refer to joy, and it is unecessary related to money or wealth.If I lead a life I like ,every moment can be happy even without any penny.I believe the most talented philosopher share the same opinion in this point with me.
Another driving factor is that most of our parents do not really understand the way to teach and the way to communicate with children.we have to admit that a significant number of parents not possess any teaching experience or ever study how to teach.Hence they cannot comprehend what does children think compared to teachers who have reveived professional training.In that case,I inevitablely doubt that how can they make the best policy on teaching.Moreover, parents are the people love us most in the world,seldom with any exception.They tend to be more likely to forgive us when we have some faults,and the probable consequence is we may not really realize what a foolish decision we make or how naughty we are.as you know, the more our parents spoil us,the less independent we will be.
parents do have postive impacts on us if they behave well since we were still little chlidren.however,they can be regarded as good teacher but not the best teacher.more strict requirements are needed if they become the qulified best teachers.