Hello, Indefatigable, and welcome to the forums!
Permit me to disagree with you, in turn, on your #2 above. Your use of "I didn't catch your name" is a great, polite way to handle a situation if you never did learn the name in the first place.
But if you're at a party and someone says "Oh, hi. Do you know Sue, Pete, [mumble], and Sarah?" It's perfectly natural to say to the third person, "I'm sorry, I didn't catch your name?"
Also, on #3: I know that I have heard people say things like "So, if I'm reading you correctly, what you really want is..." to mean "If I properly understand you." It doesn't refer to literally hearing them, but understanding their meaning. And people will say "I couldn't get a read on him today" which means "I couldn't get a good sense of his mood" or "I couldn't really tell what he was hoping to achieve from that meeting."