Hi,
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Q1 Sentence A expresses the speaker's request to the listener.
A: Would you mind opening the door?
But does B also express the speaker's request?
B: Do you mind opening the door?
I think the speaker's request can be expressed by using "Would", so B doesn't express request. Am I right? In evryday and common English, both A and B mean the same thing. So, if I wanted to express the meaning you describe below, I'd say it differently to make my menaing unambiguous. eg
Would you rather not open the door?
Would it bother you to open the door?
Is it a problem for you to open the door?
I think in B the speaker, knowing the listener has ever opened the window, asks if the listener wants to avoid the act of opening the door.
Am I right?
Q2 Can you use "Would you mind --- ing?" to express the general act of request?
That is; can you use such sentences as "Would you mind helping me when I am in need?