You seem to be offended by people around you. And the interesting thing
is, you blame everybody around except you. I don't mean that you alone
is a reason of what's going on around you and with you, but still you
have to look for the reasons of conflict and misunderstanding within
yourself. That's what I always start with. You're right, people are
egoists, they love themselves and sometimes they are very hard to
concede in anything. Think: maybe you are exactly the same? And other
people are so hard to go along with you because you try to impose your
views or opinion? Don't get offended, it's just a guess. I made sure
long time ago that all the problems on the outside root in MY inside.
Me too, I long enough couldn't find my beloved person and didn't go out
with anybody, because I: 1) wasn't able to love anybody; 2) even if I
liked a person, I couldn't stand his minor irritating (for me) habits;
3) I valued my independence and didn't want to change. In the end, I
had no relationship because every time I met a person I
looked for
defects in him to escape the relationship
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Well, the problem wasn't
with guys, the problem was with me
There was a time I started to
think there would always be like that
But then I met his guy... and
I didn't want to be the way I used to... I understand that I need to
change in something and often to concede in some opinions to stay with
this guy, because he is more importnant for me then all my opinions and
views.. you understand?
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He's just a person that made me
want to change. He's more important then all the minor problems that may apper between us. That's a revolution.
I believe that waits for you too. The right person,
your person
is out there, but if you remain with your current approach to world and
to relationship, you are most likely to just miss it.Skip your eye..
What I can advise in such situation is calmness. Be a little Buddhist
Accept things as they are and know that everything will pass.Good
and bad. And then something different will come
Just be calm and
confident in your life ('cause when you are not confident, it always
shows, and it isn't attractive) and you'll see life will smile to you.
Well, suicide is not solution, it's a mere escape. Escape from life
that has so much to offer you.