Maj, I agree with you that asking the right questions, or wording your questions correctly, is not always easy. And I don't think that applies to learning a foreign language only. I think that much of the "ineffective" communication among people these days is due to the lack of good communication and language skills, even in our first language.
There is something that is more difficult, though. And that is asking the right question *before* you have carefully read the text which brings up a doubt.
If you read again, you will see that I really didn't mean a thing by "predict" pronouns. I was asking the Guest to explain it for me!
Have you read "Alice's Adventures in Wonderland"? It's one of my favourite books!
This is from Chapter VII, 'A Mad Tea-Party':
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"The Hatter opened his eyes very wide on hearing this; but all he said was, 'Why is a raven like a writing-desk?'
'Come, we shall have some fun now!' thought Alice. 'I'm glad they've begun asking riddles.--I believe I can guess that', she added aloud.
'Do you mean that you think you can find out the answer to it?' said the March Hare.
'Exactly so', said Alice.
'Then you should say what you mean', the March Hare went on.
'I do', Alice hastily replied; 'at least--at least I mean what I say--that's the same thing, you know.'
'Not the same thing a bit!' said the Hatter. 'You might just as well say that "I see what I eat" is the same thing as "I eat what I see"!'
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~winks~
Miriam