All right!
I don't think it's only about self-esteem, self-confident or stage fear..
The problem is bigger than we all think...perfectionism is influencing people's lives and leave them struggling trying to reach thier goals..
let's be realistic here..
we want to be good.. now.. we don't have time to grow.. we want to pass job interviews though we know very well.. that we are not fully prepared for them..
We feel trapped... we want to go BIG now.. and once we think that this takes time.. we go depressed..it's a never ending circle..
We all know that It takes time to learn to speak correctly as in good enough for comunication..and confidently..forget about perfectly'' ..it's not gonna happen..like that.. it takes a very very long time ..
We need to be reasonable.. and give up being perfectionists ..things grows normally.. start with nothing..slowly develop.. taking thier time..
EVERYTHING grows..
Babies do.. animals do.. everthing grows..
sisters grow...brothers grow..
Hope this helps:P :P *it's an uplifting song for children* - don't cry *and grown ups too* :p![(:D) Big Smile]()
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Cheer up.. and make some room for growing..