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Kooyeen  #476185  Tue, 12 Feb 08 07:08 PM
Hi Tanit,
yes, sentences like "You like her more than me" can be ambiguous, but remember that no one ever says such sentences out of the blue, so there's always a context. Which meaning is intended depends on whatever comes before, the tone of voice, etc.
As for using subject pronouns, I would never say "He's taller than I" or "I like Amanda more than he", and I believe practically no native speaker (American, at least) would ever say such sentences. So it doesn't matter if some prescriptive grammarian invented some weird rule... if it's not said, it's odd, and if it's odd you might well say it's even wrong. The only exception is when "I" is used together with something else, like in "you and I". So "He is smarter than you and I" is actually in use in informal English, and it seems very common among people aged under 30. :)


  
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Kooyeen  #476187  Tue, 12 Feb 08 07:16 PM

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Hi Kooyeen

As regards the specific sentences in this post, what you see as being grammatically correct will not be seen as being grammatically correct by everyone in all contexts. That's why I advised avoiding the problem in formal written English. Sentences 1b-4b are sentences that hard-core prescriptivists as well as enthusiastic descriptivists can agree on.


Yeah, you are in the ESL field, so you must know better than me... uh, I meant, better than I Wink how many hard-core prescriptivists are in that field. Unfortunately, those are the ones that make the kinds of tests that always confuse learners. And that makes it difficult to give good advice to those who are learning... I'll try to be careful not to be too descriptive then! Big Smile
  
Tanit  #476191  Tue, 12 Feb 08 07:25 PM

Kooyeen

As for using subject pronouns, I would never say "He's taller than I" ... and I believe practically no native speaker (American, at least) would ever say such sentences.


Hi K,

Thanks for you reply.
I can assure you I heard it in the UK, mainly from a couple of teachers at the University ... and they DON'T teach English Wink (one taught "Transports" and the other one still teaches "Environmental Impacts Assessment" ... so they are NOT prescriptive grammarians!). They were well-educated native speakers, professors and researchers (so, well used to formal writing, which is something I'm interested in), and close to retiring age ... maybe this can explain.

Anyway, I'm interested also in prescriptive rules, so I'm looking forward to a reply to my question from a grammatical point of view.

  
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Yankee  #476194  Tue, 12 Feb 08 07:28 PM
Hi Tanit

"Grammatically correct" does not automatically mean that a usage will sound "natural" -- especially in informal English. This is especially true in sentences such as "It's me" or "That's him" or "He's taller than her". All of those sentences sound completely natural, but might be criticized as being "incorrect" or "overly informal" in a formal context.

You gave a very good example of how a sentence can become ambiguous when too much is omitted:
(a)  I love her more than you.

Does that mean "I love her more than you love her"?
Or does that mean "I love her more than I love you"?

Sentence (a) is ambiguous because the word 'you' can be used as either an object or a subject.  However, the next sentence should not be at all ambiguous:
(b)  I love her more than him.

Technically speaking, sentence (b) can only mean "I love her more than I love him". 

In informal English, however, it's possible that you might hear sentence (b) used to mean "I love her more than he loves her".

It would not surprise me at all to hear someone say "I have more money than him."  Technically speaking, that is a grammatically incorrect sentence, but I don't think the meaning of that particular sentence is ambiguous.  People would only understand that last sentence to mean "I have more money than he does."  People would automatically reject a possible meaning of "I have more money than I have him" since that doesn't make any sense.

Does that answer your question?
  
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Grammar Geek  #476217  Tue, 12 Feb 08 08:35 PM
And taking advantage of this forum's tolerance for off-topic tangents, I want to know more about your Environmental Impact Assessments course, Tanit! Would you start a thread in Topic of the Moment if you think it will lead to more posts, or can you just let me know about it here?
  
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Newguest  #476223  Tue, 12 Feb 08 09:03 PM
Thank you for your all answers. They are quite helpful (:)) Smile
  
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Tanit  #476889  Thu, 14 Feb 08 03:21 PM
Yankee


Does that answer your question?


Yes, I think it does. Let me try to recap and to make general statements (I know, this is pretty dangerous when talking about English grammar!)

  1. If the verb is intransitive there's no ambiguity, irrespective of the pronoun used: the meaning of I run faster than he (form.); I run faster than him (inform.); I run faster than you is clear.
  2. If the verb is transitive,
    • ambiguity certainly arises when the pronoun is "you" (eg. "I love her more than you") because we cannot differentiate subject and object (unless the context makes it clear which is which, as Kooyeen said);
    • if the pronoun is other than "you", strictly speaking there is no ambiguity (eg. "I love her more than he" is different from "I love her more than him"). However (in informal speaking only) me/him/her/us/them can replace I/he/she/we/they, which makes the sentence ambiguous again (I'm obviously not taking the context into account, and considering the sentence as a stand-alone).
  • Hope it's fine Smile
    Thank you!
      
    Tanit  #476898  Thu, 14 Feb 08 03:48 PM
    Grammar Geek
    Would you start a thread in Topic of the Moment if you think it willlead to more posts, or can you just let me know about it here?


    Hi Barbara,

    I will! Would you like me to focus on something?
      
    Anonymous  #485382  Wed, 05 Mar 08 07:56 PM
     Hey Yankee,

    Along the same line, do you have any idea on this type of structure:

    He is taller than is she.

    or

    He runs faster than does she. 

    I've seen many times that in comparative sentences like above, the verb comes before the subject in the second part of the comparison. Is this grammatically correct?

    Yipmun 

      
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