rack  +  46368 Mon, 20 Sep 04 09:12 AM hi, a married guy told me that recently he has dated a woman who is a mother of two kids. He boasted that the woman is sweet and has fallen in love with him. I have a hunch that he is not serious. I think it is disgusting. What's your oppinion? rack Joined on Mon, Sep 20 2004 New Member 03

	Ryuyuki  +  47105 Fri, 24 Sep 04 12:30 PM Wow That's a dangerous game to play (for that man) but surely if he still in married, don't playing 'love game' with other. Specially with ones who surely was very serious seeking 'love' and 'partner' in theirs life. Don't cause other heart broken because of what you do. Ryuyuki Joined on Wed, Jul 14 2004 indonesia Full Member 224 quote of this day : Time, use it best cause it never come back

	MobySlick  +  49585 Fri, 08 Oct 04 08:28 PM I agree, it is despicable. When you marry someone you make a promise to be their mate for life. I don't care what any philanderer says about "it's just physical, it doesn't mean anything" - that's BS. Whenever you have sex with someone there is an emotional component. Sex is the intimate expression of love you have for your partner. If you go and have sex with someone else, that destroys any real mening your physical relationship with your partner could have. Besides which it shows you are so weak-willed, shallow, and selfish that you can't even keep your own promises. MobySlick Joined on Thu, Oct 7 2004 New Member 15

	eagle  +  49593 Fri, 08 Oct 04 11:20 PM I agree completely. Infact leave alone extramarrital, I am of a view point , that even if you are not married, but have a commitement to that person(being in Love). You should make sure that you do not have any other affair, If you are attracated towards someother person or feel that he/she is not the right choice, it is always better to first break off and let the breakoff emotions settle down and then fall in a new relationship. Lot of people have an affair alongside a good long committment. Then one fine day when they are sure that if they break off with the first one and second one will accept him/her. They break off with first one, either casually or diplomatically or by manupulating things, etc. Later its always the first Lover who feels cheated or lonely. well, but ofcourse, why should world be so easy for honest and self-effacing Lovers? It always seems easy for cunning and the Selfish ones eagle Joined on Mon, Jul 12 2004 Full Member 340 Courage is not only to stand up and speak,but, to sit down and Listen aswell.**Its Nice 2 BE Important but its more Important 2 Be NICE**

	Molly  +  49621 Sat, 09 Oct 04 04:36 PM I can't think of anything positively to say to cheaters. I think it's disgusting when a married person or a person with a little less commitment (being in love as Eagle said) does have sex with another person just for lust. I don't have enought words to express my revulsion towards those people. Molly Joined on Sun, Jul 11 2004 Full Member 166