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Lcchang  #380381  Sat, 16 Jun 07 03:53 PM

...Tears are a sign of our ability to feel. If you find yourself near someone crying, deal with it. And never be afraid to cry yourself....

I am afraid I don't get the meaning...If someone is "near" me and cries, why should I deal with it? Please advise.

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Yankee  #380404  Sat, 16 Jun 07 04:45 PM

In the context, it means you should not avoid or ignore a person who is crying. (People sometimes do this because they don't know how to react to a person who is crying.) 

"Deal with it" = You should talk to/sympathize with/try to help the person who is crying. You should not ignore the fact that the person is crying.

  
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Lcchang  #380408  Sat, 16 Jun 07 04:54 PM

I see. Thanks.

LCChang

  
Lcchang  #380414  Sat, 16 Jun 07 04:58 PM

By the way, Yankee. Do you watch Major League baseball on TV? Chien-Ming Wang, one of the Yankee's best pitchers, is from my country. Smile [:)]

LCChang

  
Yankee  #380417  Sat, 16 Jun 07 05:09 PM
Hi LCChang

I don't ususally choose to watch baseball on TV, but sometimes I have to because the male members of the family are watching it. Wink [;)]

I do enjoy going to baseball games, though.

I have heard of Chien-Ming Wang.  He even has his own write-up in Wikipedia: Smile [:)]
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chien-Ming_Wang
http://mlb.mlb.com/team/player.jsp?player_id=425426

  
Lcchang  #380422  Sat, 16 Jun 07 05:29 PM

 Yankee wrote:
Hi LCChang

I don't ususally choose to watch baseball on TV, but sometimes I have to because the male members of the family are watching it. Wink [;)]

I do enjoy going to baseball games, though.

I have heard of Chien-Ming Wang.  He even has his own write-up in Wikipedia: Smile [:)]
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chien-Ming_Wang
http://mlb.mlb.com/team/player.jsp?player_id=425426

Thank you. I will try to digest these articles.

LCChang

  
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