NEED HELP Writing Letter To Judge: Boyfriend Is In JAIL!!! :'(

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PLEASE CAN ANYONE HELP ME! I NEED TO KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO THE JUDGE ON MY BOYFRIEND'S BEHALF. HE WENT TO JAIL ON SUNDAY FOR SOME MAJOR CHARGES AND HE'S LOOKING AT MAJOR TIME IN JAIL/PRISON. HE'S A GREAT PERSON, BUT HE DOES HAVE SOME ISSUES BECAUSE OF A VERY HARD LIFE. I MAY BE PREGNANT AND I CANNOT RAISE A BABY ON MY OWN.

PLEASE CAN ANYONE HELP!
New Member01
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JUST WRITE FROM YOUR HEART. I HAD TO DO THIS NOT TOO LONG AGO. I JUST WROTE ABOUT HIS BACKGROUND & THE KIND OF PERSON HE IS. GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING!!
Anonymous:
My boyfriend is in jail,but does not deserve to be
Anonymous:
what can you do for me to help him. his in jail for something he didnt do
Hi Lovely23inAZ,

I suggest you contact a good lawyer. Writing such documents on one's own is very difficult for a layperson.
Regular Member717
Anonymous:
You seem to be able to use words fairly well, so your letter should sound intelligent in that area. You should point out his good characteristics, be detailed and use examples to show what you mean when you say he is a good person. You also mention his hard life. Give examples of this. Try to demonstrate that he has changed since his arrest. Talk about hings he might have said or done to show his remorse. At the end, try to convince the judge that your new family will be a major factor in changing his behavior. He should agree with everything you say, chances are, the judge will ask him about the things you say.
Anonymous:
Maybe I can help. My boyfriend is in jail as well and he has been in and out of jail for almost half of our relationship. It never really got to me before but then i found out also i was pregnant.. I know how you are feeling. im sorry about everything. I dont know if I can help but hopefully you do okay and if you are pregnant good luck with the baby.. if u want this baby, KEEP IT.. because I have had many people tell me otherwise and it only makes u feel worse. it made me do something i regret.. aborting the baby... anyways hopefully u get this... i would post my email but im not too sure about the whole thing with everyone seeing it.. so good luck.
Anonymous:
oh my god I'm going through the same situation and its really hard to even start a letter so that the judge and listen out if u get answer.
Anonymous:
What you just wrote is a good start! If he has confessed then you could say that. Honesty helps. If he is pleading innocent you don't want to incriminate him, but seriously, that sounded perfect. Does he have a plan for how to stay out of trouble? I would mention that and say that you will be there to support him. Good luck. I am in almost your same boat. Be strong.
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