Hi Davkett,
well, I sure would hyphenate an always-grumpy husband (a pretty common species of husbands, I'm afraid) and naturally a never-nagging wife (where do you find that species?). However, again I would decide against the already-aggravated husband, because he appears to me to belong to the species of aggravated husbands and it is just the case that he is already aggravated when we meet him, but does it make him already-aggravated?
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