My comments:
#1: It's not
"If you didn't want...", but I hear
"He didn't want be second..."The odd thing is that I couldn't detect any "to" after "want".
#2:
"Cause he's prolly one of most complex people I ever met"Where "prolly" means "probably". I am not sure if it is just a common alternate pronunciation, if it's dialectal, or if it's a different contracted word which has the same meaning anyway. I just know that I've heard it and seen it (written) before.
I don't know why the article "the" is missing in front of "most complex people" though.