JC, I actually think this article does a very good job of explaining what a co-op is. You need to read the entire article.
A co-op is a special type of real estate situation - the other owners in the building elect people from among themselves to serve on the co-op board. It is not ONE person; it is a group of people. They will determine whether someone is allowed to purchase a condo that is for sale.
You don't RENT when you're in a co-op. You buy. The co-op board will not collect your payments - that goes to your bank.
Please read the entire article and ask about things that confuse you.
EDIT: You will not be able to find a synonym. It's a very specific situation and there are not other words that mean the same thing.