When I visited England I thought they were purposely trying to drive me round the bend!
When you think of pudding as something that is eaten as a dessert, you
just sit there wide-eyed and open-mouthed when asked if you want cake for
pudding.
-- Do you mean you usually get pudding, but you can
substitute cake today?
-- No! You get whatever you like for pudding.
-- So you'll bring me pudding and I'll pretend it's cake or pie or whatever?
-- No!
I can certainly sympathize with the original poster. The whole
thing leaves me talking to myself, if you know what I mean!
CJ