Well, I've no doubt there are such students; but there are many others who haven't been told to use the past form to their professors (no one told me, for instance).
As we discussed earlier, respect and acceptance of social distance aren't the only interpretations. Cf.
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#2 sounds more polite to me; it might indicate deference, tentativeness, or condescension.
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Plus unobtrusiveness, etc. Or cunning, when you want to usher someone towards a particular decision.
MrP