Guest  +  59975 Tue, 07 Dec 04 10:39 PM Hello. Sometimes we focus too much on our negative aspects. A good way to focus more on the good points you have, rather than the ones you don't, is to list them out. It might change the way you feel, it might not, but is sure is fun to try, so please, join me (don't worry I'm not used to this either, actually I put myself down a lot, so this might be particularly therapeutic for me and anybody else who has that problem). Ok here goes: I/(I am): sensitive kind helpful intelligent very artistic can be very funny a good listener patient understanding brilliant with my hands have good logic can laugh at myself a good judge of character can cook really well always happy to make a new friend am health conscious care about the environment love animals have amazing relationships with my loved ones very hygenic get along with everyone I meet very resourceful Wow! That list turned out a lot longer than I expected! Go on, have a go! Guest Negatives

	Andrey  +  60051 Wed, 08 Dec 04 04:10 AM Wow, wow, wow ! It's rather long list but there are a few people only who have even though a 10 points of it ! ! ! But if everybody will have all points it is really a "gold man". I geuss it will be interesting who will print the lagest list of their own possitive ones. Let's go.....................................! Andrey Joined on Tue, Nov 16 2004 New Member 27

	Andrey  +  60317 Thu, 09 Dec 04 02:19 AM "Gold man".... I mean blameless man. We call "gold man" those who have a LOT of good points and almost have not bad ones. But I thing that good or bad points are provisory. For example if you are outspoken there was anyway situations when you sad or had to say lie. And the same is with bad points. As for me I will think alittle and then print my ones. Andrey

	ellen  +  60379 Thu, 09 Dec 04 09:25 AM "gold man" should be a man with responsibility and loyalty to his heart,i think. by tradition in our country,man is the goodman of a family.so,he should be responsible for many signaficiant things.he is the umbrella of the whole family.the man with responsibility can strive to let his family live happily. loyalty to one's heart is a good charactor,which should be have by both man and woman. once man and woman fall into love, they must be loyal to each other,in spite of disease, mischance,death....that is the reason why we must make promise in church when wedding hold. ellen Joined on Thu, Dec 2 2004 china New Member 19 Weddings

	Andrey  +  60451 Thu, 09 Dec 04 04:21 PM "Gold man" is also kind-hearted ! He will come to help everyone if he would have an opportunity. And it's better to have this man as friend than a big bag of gold ! In families' lifes there are "gold mans" too but families' relationships is another matter. Andrey