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New2grammar  #373380  Fri, 01 Jun 07 03:21 AM

My friend came to visit me and is in my house. I would like to offer her to stay but I only have a room to myself. Can I say this:

You can stay at my place but since I only have a room to myself, you would have to sleep with me.

Thanks in advance

  
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Grammar Geek  #373382  Fri, 01 Jun 07 03:27 AM

Be VERY VERY careful!

The more common thought when you hear "sleep with me" is "have sex with me."

  
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Yoong Liat  #373399  Fri, 01 Jun 07 04:26 AM
 Grammar Geek wrote:

Be VERY VERY careful!

The more common thought when you hear "sleep with me" is "have sex with me."


' .... sleep on the same bed with me'. Will that solve the misunderstanding?
  
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Grammar Geek  #373406  Fri, 01 Jun 07 04:46 AM

Perhaps you could say something like this:

I see how late it is! If you want to stay here, you are welcome to, but I have only my one room, so I'm afraid we'd have to share a bed. It is more comfortable than the floor, though!

I have to say, this is so contrary to American culture that it's hard to imagine this.

  
Peaceblinkfriend  #373512  Fri, 01 Jun 07 01:01 PM
 Grammar Geek wrote:

I have to say, this is so contrary to American culture that it's hard to imagine this.



Hi Grammer Geek,

So what Americans usually do in this situation?

Best wishes,
Ernest
  
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nona the brit  #373643  Fri, 01 Jun 07 04:53 PM
In England we'd say 'share my room/bed' or 'crash in my bed' or 'sleep on the sofa'.
  
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Marius Hancu  #373682  Fri, 01 Jun 07 06:00 PM
Well, if you're not of the same sex, and over  a certain age (like 10), sleeping in the same bed would not be OK in many cultures.



  
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Bokeh  #373698  Fri, 01 Jun 07 06:43 PM
New2grammar, are you male or female? What country are you from? Where are you living now?
  
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