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Latest post Thu, Nov 26 2009 12:02 AM by Clive. 8 replies.
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misty77  +  818300 Mon, 13 Jul 09 07:40 PM
Which one is correct:


I want to speak with you


I want to speak to you


It's always nice to speak to you


It's always nice to speak with you


Thanks in advance


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Philip  +  818368 Mon, 13 Jul 09 08:46 PM
For the sake of politeness, I would generally use "with".  Unless you are talking to a group of people in a lecture situation, "to" sounds rather ominous and threatening. 
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Fandorin  +  818370 Mon, 13 Jul 09 08:48 PM
They are all fine. Speak to/speak with are the same.
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Yoong Liat  +  818782 Tue, 14 Jul 09 04:05 AM
Fandorin
“They are all fine. Speak to/speak with are the same.

They are not the same, as Philip has pointed out.

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Fandorin  +  818964 Tue, 14 Jul 09 06:45 AM
Post a link then, please. We all tend to mistake 
Fandorin  +  818987 Tue, 14 Jul 09 07:08 AM
Oops. I didn't notice it.
Anonymous, 19 days ago
Speak with when the person you are in a conversation with someone, when he/she actually talks back.


Speak to when you speak to a person or group of people who just listen and do not respond in any way, like in a speech or auditorium or symposium.


I speak with him and he said that everything is going to be fine.

I speak to the graduating classes of 2009 in a symposium today.

Anonymous, 14 hr 37 min ago
There is a big difference between the two phrases. To "speak to" implies a somewhat sense of authority. It also implies that only one person will be doing the speaking. On the other hand, to "speak with" is much less assertive and implies dialogue rather than orders.
Clive  +  999124 Thu, 26 Nov 09 12:02 AM
Hi,

Generally, I agree with what has been said, but I would also like to add a comment.

 

speak with  - I tend to view this as a feature of N. American English.

 

speak to - This is more common in Canadian English, and (as far as I know, unless things have changed in my long absence) in British English. Whether or not the other person also spoke is usually obvious from the context or simply unimportant.

 

Best wishes, Clive

 

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