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pieanne  +  68863 Thu, 20 Jan 05 02:59 PM
I'd like to know whether there are any "formal" rule for using talk rather than speak, and vise-versa. Thanks!
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Mister Micawber  +  68918 Thu, 20 Jan 05 10:33 PM

Hi Pieanne,

No, no formal rule. The words occur in different situations: for instance, I speak at a fundraising dinner and then talk to my friends afterwards. Usually, either one is OK. Speaking is perhaps a slightly more formal use of the voice in communication. Making a speech is a more formal activity than giving a talk.

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seyfihoca  +  68919 Thu, 20 Jan 05 10:35 PM
do we say "talk to me" or "speak to me" then?

or

is speak one-sided, while talk is "two- or multi-sided"?
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Mister Micawber  +  68933 Thu, 20 Jan 05 11:55 PM

Within the context you have given, both are equally possible:

'Talk/speak to me, darling!' -- both are fine.
'They were speaking/talking to each other when I entered the room' -- both are fine.
'Everyone was speaking/talking at once, so I could not make myself heard' -- both are fine.

Did you attempt to make some sample sentences for yourself before posting, Seyfihoca?

pieanne  +  68995 Fri, 21 Jan 05 08:51 AM
Yet, you say: "speak up", "speak"different languages, "talk one's way out of sth", "it's just talk!" I take it is a matter of idioms, then?
seyfihoca  +  69027 Fri, 21 Jan 05 12:20 PM
from Cambridge;

-Would you mind speaking more slowly, please?
-"Can I speak to/with Ian please?" "Speaking!"
-If he tells Julie what I said, I'll never speak to him again.
-She spoke of her sadness over her father's death.
-She speaks very highly of the new director.
-I can certainly come but I can't speak for my wife.
-Who is going to speak for the accused?
-He's old enough to speak for himself.
-I went with Ava - speaking of Ava, have you seen her new haircut?
-We've been invited to Rachel and Jamie's wedding - speaking of which, did you know that they're moving to Ealing?
-Speaking as a mother of four, I can tell you that children are exhausting.
-Sue speaks with an American accent.
-Why are you speaking in a whisper ?
-For five whole minutes, neither of them spoke a word.

Do you mean we can use "talk" in all these sentences?
Mister Micawber  +  69032 Fri, 21 Jan 05 12:41 PM


Yes, many are just a matter of idiomatic usage and stock phraseology.

I said nothing previously about your sentences, Seyf, but the ones in which 'talk' sounds awkward seem like set phrases to me: 'speaking as/of', 'speak for', 'speak highly of'. If you wish, you can make a list of these and call it a rule-- and another rule for 'talk one's way out of'', 'talk turkey', 'talk someone into', etc.

pieanne  +  69080 Fri, 21 Jan 05 04:00 PM
apart from idiomatic use, is it right to think that "speak" means "uttering words", and "talk" "have a conversation"? (on the whole)
seyfihoca, 4 yr 309 days ago
that sounds more comprehensible.

is "speech" a derivative of "speak" then?
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