Hello everyone,
I totally agree with Tonyoung: Our newly met user is probably saying 'boyfriend' and referring to this person as 'her' simply because of difficulties in translating the appropriate Chinese words into English.
On the other hand, I think some of you should study homosexuality, transgenderism, and related topics more thoroughly. It seems like some of you are lacking understanding of certain minorities in our global village, something I don't see as highly desirable to say at least... Why don't you all ask yourself: What does it mean to be a 'he' or a 'she'? What about same-sex relationships?