To my friends who are …… MARRIED

Love is not about “it’s your fault”, but “I’m sorry”,
not “where are you” but “I’m right here”,
not “how could you” but “I understand”,
not “I wish you were”, but, “I’m thankful you are.”


To my friends who are …… ENGAGED

The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together,
but how good you are for each other.


To my friends who are ……. NOT SO SINGLE

Love isn’t about becoming somebody else’s “perfect person”.
It’s about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.


To my friends who are …… HEARTBROKEN

I know its so hard but try this...
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go.
The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.


To my friends who are …… NAIVE

How to be in love: Fall but don’t stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.


To my friends who are …… SEARCHING

True love cannot be found where it does not truly exist,
nor can it be hidden where it truly does.
Love is magic. The more we hide it, the more it shows,
the more you suppress it, the more it grows.


To my friends who are……THE PLAYBOY/PLAYGIRL TYPE

Never say I love if you don’t care.
Never talk about feelings if they aren’t there.
Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart.
Never look in the eye when what you do is lie.

The cruellest thing a person can do to another, is to let them fall in love ...when they don’t intend to catch their fall.


To my friends who are…… POSSESSIVE

It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it’s more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.


To my friends who are…… AFRAID TO CONFESS

Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you.
But love hurts the most when the person you love has no ides how you feel.


To my friends who are……STILL HOLDING ON

A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and we just have to let go.


To my friends who are……SINGLE

Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it would come to you when you least expect it.

Love can make you happy but often times it hurts, but love’s only special when you give it to someone who is worth it.


A Thought on Happiness

We convince ourselves that life will better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren’t old enough and we’ll be more content when they are.
After that, we’re frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with.
We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage.
We tell ourselves that life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are we able to go on a nice vacation, or when we retire. The truth is, there’s no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when?

Your life will always be filled with challenges.

It’s best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.

Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time with…and remember that time waits for no one.

So, stop waiting…

- Until your car or home is paid off
- Until you get a new car or home
- Until your kids leave the house
- Until you go back to school
- Until you finish school
- Until you lose 10 lbs.
- Until you gain 10 lbs.
- Until you get married
- Until you get divorce
- Until you have kids
- Until you retire
- Until summer
- Until spring
- Until winter
- Until fall
- Until you die

There is no better time than right now to be happy.

Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

So work like you don’t need money, love like you’ve never been hurt and dance like no one’s watching.

Love ?


love is sweet,
love is peaceful,
love never causes turmoil love creates inner peace
love creates inner power
love creates creativity
love creates productivity
love creates savings of time
love creates inner balance
love creates health - inner and outer
love creates solutions - never questions
love creates a smile - inner and outer
love .. attracts nothing but love

"If the love is true and meant to be, God will tell you through the heart, mind, and soul."

Love isn't love until you give it away, so give it wings and let it go, if it's meant to be it will fly right back to you!"

"Remember that the truest love, is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other."