To vs. for

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hsiaoyunh  #572259  Wed, 01 Oct 08 04:30 PM
I got confused about 'to me' and 'for me'.

Can I say

It's important for us to save energy.

It's important to us to save energy.

Saving energy is important for us.

Saving energy is important to us.

For me, this is important.

To me, this is imortant.

What's the rule to use 'to' and 'for'? What's the difference in meaning?

Thanks in advance.
  
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Philip  #572261  Wed, 01 Oct 08 04:34 PM
to me generally indicates that it is a value I have, I participate in saving energy.
for me indicates that I will benefit favorably if everyone saves energy.

Additionally:

He sent the book to me (I received the book).   He sent the book for me (he did me a favor while he was at the post office).

  
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hsiaoyunh  #575370  Sat, 11 Oct 08 08:13 AM
How about the following?

It's unfair to me.

It's unfair for me.

Thanks.
  
Huevos  #575400  Sat, 11 Oct 08 11:23 AM

Let's change the pronoun to "he":

  • "He is unfair to me" => "me" is the recipient of the action.
  • "He is unfair for me" => the action is carried out on behalf of "me".
  
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