YankeeI think what people tend to forget is that English was not "invented" by some god-like group of linguists who first sat down and wrote up a list of prescriptive rules, and then went out and told everyone "Learn this brand new language. Here is the list of rules. Don't speak this language any other way"
Thank God you think so, Amy!

I always like it when someone says "Just because everybody says it, doesn't mean it is right". Well, the truth is the fact that everyone says it
does make it right. Otherwise you should say "thou" instead of "you"... "you" is wrong even though everybody says it, because everyone is actually spoiling the English language.
I also like it when someone says something is non-standard, without saying what they mean by standard (since there is no such thing as a single standard). So I wonder if "aubergine" is a non-standard synonym of "eggplant". It sure is! People in the UK seem to use non-standard English.