I am struggling to fully understand what is meant by a 'transitive' verb. As far as I have been able to grasp it thus far, a verb is transitive if it needs an object to act on. So in;
"The man ate the food"
'ate' is transitive, because there has to be something that he ate. However if we take;
"The train arrived in London"
'arrived' seems to be often described as intransitive in this context. But why cannot 'London' be seen as the object in this sentence? Afterall, the action of arriving
is being done on the object London, or am I just hopelessly confused about what 'object' means? I can see other contexts wherein 'arrived' appears more clearly intransitive, such as;
"The train arrived ten minutes late"
But I want to be clear about whether "arrives in the station" or "arrives on my desk" can be seen as transitive uses of the verb. It would be much appreciated if someone could kindly clarify this for me.
Thanks.