haoqide  +  42101 Fri, 13 Aug 04 08:22 PM You're right, Molly. It's sad when you can't turn on the TV without being bombarded by things like that...but it's to be expected in the world; the world is a very twisted place that makes bad seem good and good seem bad. I don't watch much TV anymore because of that. haoqide Joined on Mon, Jul 5 2004 Nashville, TN Full Member 307

	eagle  +  42270 Sun, 15 Aug 04 03:06 AM Hi David, I wont say "It is up to the individual to do what they believe is right. Everyone has the right to make their own choices." But I will say that most things has to be seen from the prospective of the intention and the real motive of the action. Freedom to act or say or think doesnot mean it should interfere with someone's life or freedom of other. If I have been given a freedom to say anything does that mean I can say anything? No, definitely not. Yes, but in most cases if the intention is clearly to help or for benifit of the mass on the whole it could be considered good. Example related to Topic. If a woman is married to a man and if we support the notion of being Virgin, can any body explain to me- How far is this justified that the girl does not have sex life(even with her husband)? It is totally her wish, but it does interfere in the married life and her husband's desire(which is also her right). Similarily have a view of it other way round- How far is this justified- Husband forces his wife to have a sex with her for his own wish?(I will term this rape, if she does not agrees) But in both cases a mutual understanding is required. It is not a question of making a choice it is question of making a wise, amicable decision kepping in mind the needs of all those who will be affected directly by your decision. A girl, if she decides to be a Virgin has my support till and untill she is not married, becuse no one is affected by her decision, no body is dependant on her for Love and sex. I hope you are getting a point to fall in to debate with me eagle Joined on Mon, Jul 12 2004 Full Member 340 Courage is not only to stand up and speak,but, to sit down and Listen aswell.**Its Nice 2 BE Important but its more Important 2 Be NICE**

	Molly  +  42463 Mon, 16 Aug 04 02:15 PM A girl should decide for her own if and when she will lose her virginity. She shouldn't be forced into love and sex, not even by her husband. I'm with you on that Eagle. But . . . I think it is wise to be carefull and think twice before having sex with a person you don't want to have a commitment to. Molly Joined on Sun, Jul 11 2004 Full Member 166

	jp  +  42750 Wed, 18 Aug 04 04:39 PM Its very easy, if you don't trust you parnter, and you wanna go to bed with that person, just let her take the HIV test, to see if she has the disease. jp Joined on Wed, Aug 18 2004 New Member 05 Join me at http://jgp.proboards29.com

	gilly  +  66537 Sun, 09 Jan 05 03:47 PM I believe that sex is a very important part off any life time relationship , what iff you have been saveing yourself for the one you love and then you find out you are sexually uncompatable? gilly Joined on Sun, Sep 19 2004 New Member 04

	Ryuyuki  +  66699 Mon, 10 Jan 05 06:38 AM It's up to their own personal about it if they want to lose it or not with someone before their getting married. Yes..., sex is very important part of our life in relationship, but you must be carefull with it. Cause when you lose it, you can "get it back" speacially when you do it with "just any body" without any feel or relation (like married). So think carefull with some feeling if you want to do it. And like haq said, in this days HIV and many kind of it around us if you don't carefull enough. Ryuyuki Joined on Wed, Jul 14 2004 indonesia Full Member 224 quote of this day : Time, use it best cause it never come back

	moltobella  +  67092 Tue, 11 Jan 05 08:15 PM To still have your virginity is not good nor bad! What difference could it possibly make??? Being permiscuous and irresponsible is a different matter! Who cares if you can't get it back???? It's not the end of the world you know!! Virginity is just a word after all, it's not a tangible thing! moltobella Joined on Wed, Dec 29 2004 New Member 23