Hello every body,

Today, I would like actually to talk about a very important issue that everyone encounters in his/her practical life. We usually, dear readers, get criticisms from people we love. It is a human nature to criticize more than to compliment. We sometimes think that such these criticisms wound our precious pride and hurt our sense of importance. Even if the criticisms are reasonable, we in return condemn trying to justify our own manners. "Let's realize that criticisms are like homing pigeons" said Dale Cardnegie, "They always return home."

Let us put a spotlight on this issue but from your perspectives. What do you think? When do you accept criticisms? And from whom? How do you often deal with criticisms? Do you criticize yourself? Do you criticize with compliment or you just attack directly? Do you believe that criticism is dangerous?

Your opinions are very valuable to me.

I'm looking forward to hearing from you.

M

Hello Floxflow,

First of all, I greatly appreciate you taking the time to post this valuable comment which I like very much. Yes, I completely agree with you that criticisms are really risky and a lot of criticisms might collapse in depression. Why? Simply because we let our emotions speak first and our logic speak second. We also sometimes forget the fact that we are dealing with sensitive creatures, full of emotions and motivated by self-importance. 

Criticisms with compliments are more affordable. They are helpful when we use the right word at the right place with the right person. How is that? By focusing on things that can be improved while avoiding personal insults. And that is what we call it the constructive criticism.  

Thanks again for stopping by and sharing your valuable input. Your opinion helped me to take another look at the subject from another angle. 

I'm still willing to read other's points of view.

Have good days and better nights.