Hi Vance,

I don't think that all men are as you describe.  I am married to a wonderful, sensitive, loving man - exactly the opposite of what you described.

I think that part of the problem with the men you meet may be your assumptions of who they are.  How much time are you spending with these men getting to know them before commiting to a serious relationship with them? I have a friend who constantly picked men with tempers and personalities such as the ones you described. I think that people tend to fall into a pattern of the type of people they date/have relationships with. In this instance it sounds like you have fallen into a pattern with the type of men you are having relationships with and are having a hard time getting away from that pattern. This is likely why you are feeling that all men fall into these personality traits.

I would suggest spending some time with a man you are interested in as solely a friend before you consider entering a relationship. A lot of the time a person will show more of their personality and who they really are with a friend then they will in the beginning of a relationship. Go out with a group of people and your interest and trust your friends opinions of him. A lot of the time your friends may see something you don't.

Anyways, that's just my two cents. I hope my opinion helps you out!