Syth wrote:

Hi! I'm posting here for the first time, so if any thread like this alredy exists I'm sorry I'd like to know exactly when to use ing and when to use to in a sentance. Example: I wish (see) the manager. I know it's I wish to see the manager, but I don't know why it's like this. Are there any grammatic rules or how could I know when use ing and when to verb. More examples: He dreads (have) to retire. The boys like (play) games, but hate (do) lessons. Would you mind (shut) the window? I hate (sit) in a draught. Thanks in advance!

Hi Sith,

Welcome!

This may not be “exactly” the answer you want to hear. But I would offer you this. Rule of thumb:  for verbs like “desire”, “want”, “like”, “wish”, “intend”, “plan”, “need” and a few others, “infinitive” is the correct choice in most cases.  There are exceptions of course but these exceptions are context dependent.

If I ask you: What do you wish to do with your life the most in your life if you have the power to choose?

You may say “I wish to become a pilot”. Not becoming.

What do you plan to do this weekend?

I am planning to have a picnic at Yosemite National Park.

Sometimes, the verb, “like” can take on either gerund or infinitive without compromise the meaning.

I like to meet / meeting new friends = both are equally good sentences. I hope this helps ...!