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Also telling Spanish students that in English it is incorrect to interrupt a person when he's speaking or that to all speak at the same time is seen as rude is nothing to do with being able to use the language well.You can speak English and interrupt as much or as little as you like, it makes no difference to your ability to use the language well. |
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I agree up to a point.
Let's take an example from French. There are two words for "you" - tu and vous. When you speak to two or more people there is no problem - you use vous. However, when you are speaking to one person you have to chose between the "familiar" tu and the "polite" vous. The choice of word is not made according to any strict grammatical rule, but according to social convention. If a speaker chooses what would for a native speaker be the wrong one (for example uses vous to a child) would he would be speaking correctly?
There are of course many languages with far more complicated rules about the forms to be used according to who is addressing whom. Would you say that these rules can be ignored?
If the answer to that question is no, then is it a much greater step to insist, when teaching students, that they observe the rules which speakers of a language impose for polite conversation?
It is surely one of the aims of teaching a language to ensure that the student can converse successfully with a native speaker. If you get the tone wrong you may throw up a barrier to communication.