Yoong Liat wrote: |
Hi Goodman
I'm glad that the discussion between you and me has come to an end. I would have to thank Amy for helping us settle the issue, otherwise, I think it would have dragged on for the next one month at least.
I will keep using the “more” correct form, as some others would call it. Or you may say 'informal'. This is the term used by BritishClub.com.. The 'were' version is formal.
I'm waiting eagerly for Amy's response to your question.
Best wishes.
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Liat,
We’d traded Google findings to prove our points on the subject for a few days. Enough has been said. To me. the bottom line is this. Even the authorities on English have split opinions, some leaning to your favor while some agreed with mine. As far as “settling” this debate was concerned, Amy’s input has not swayed my traditional view, however convinced me enough to agree to disagree.
You said “I wish I was…” was correct but “were” was “More correct”, as you phrased it. Is this the question you were waiting for Amy to response to? There is nothing “formal” about saying “I wish I were…”. I say and hear it all the time. So “formal” or “informal” are just coined phrases in the reference sources you used. However I do agree, language evolves with time as Amy said. But if we are not careful and take the position to favor the trend of the majority as a guiding instrument for the language’s future, then I am not so sure evolvement it is what we will achieve at the end. For example, just take a look at the how the “Y” generation is using the language. The “chatroom” and the “text message” styling of the language are silently making our kids less and less able to spell and to form sentences that make good “English sense”. Am I being longwinded, or speaking the truth?
That said, I think you are a pretty intelligent guy and I might even get to like you if we ever have a chance to meet over a cup of famous Singaporean style tea. For now, I just don’t think we share the same views and opinions.