with ______ using this tool
by _______ grasping a thing using this 'handle'
Can you cut this cake with this knife?
Can you pound this nail in with this hammer?
Can you clean the floor with this broom?
You should pick up this pan by the heat-resistant handle.
You should take the child by the hand and lead her away.
You should grab the snake by the head to prevent it from biting you.
So in the first case hair is being conceptualized as a tool for
doing lifting; in the second case hair is being thought of as a place
to hold on to a person.
CJ