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Dedicated to continual re-education and our search for a broader understanding of life. Please register if you wish to post here.</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>XMOD (Build: 3607.32596)</generator><item><title>Re: Discipline without punishment, is it possible?</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm#141956</link><pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 06:23:48 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:141956</guid><dc:creator>anita_a</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm#141956</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments28-141956.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>I don't believe that you need to physically punish a kid in order to discipline him or her.Be it a teacher or a parent, they should know how to draw the line between being friendly and disciplining them. And the best way to discipline the kids is to be friendly with them but be strict when it comes to some wrong that they have done. Be stern and strict when they go wrong and also let them know where they went wrong and what are the consequences thereupon.</description></item><item><title>Re: Discipline without punishment, is it possible?</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm#139131</link><pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 06:23:48 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:139131</guid><dc:creator>gurban</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm#139131</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments28-139131.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>Yeah, what I meant was any kind of punishment, physical, verbal or whatever. In school where I work,for instance, physical punishment is strictly forbidden. But there is no discipline at all. Children are like teachers' friend. They behave to teachers as if they are,teachers, their friends.</description></item><item><title>Re: Discipline without punishment, is it possible?</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm#138578</link><pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 06:23:48 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:138578</guid><dc:creator>monfrancom</dc:creator><slash:comments>2</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm#138578</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments28-138578.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>Gurban wrote:    In education it is mostly said that children/learners should not be pumished. Is discipline without punishment possible? Please send your comments, ideas.    
 I did a search on www.kartoo.com using the words "discipline punishment" together, and found this web site  http://www.new-life.net/discipln.htm that helps to put discipline and punishment in perspective. Be aware that this discussion is within a "christian" context. The reader can easily discociate any elements that show a religious tendency and get to the essential meanings pertaining to discipline versus punishment. It should be the first lesson in Discipline 101 class! It should also be part of every schools' first meeting between administration and teachers....</description></item><item><title>Re: Discipline without punishment, is it possible?</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm#138284</link><pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 06:23:48 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:138284</guid><dc:creator>Philip</dc:creator><slash:comments>3</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm#138284</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments28-138284.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>Gurban wrote:    In education it is mostly said that children/learners should not be pumished. Is discipline without punishment possible? Please send your comments, ideas.    
 Many parents, educators and psychologists believe that discipline can best be achieved by allowing "natural consequences" to be the so-called punishment in effect. The rules need to be set up carefully, or "natural" loses its meaning.  
 If a child doesn't eat his dinner because, he's too full, by-passing dessert is a natural consequence rather than a punishment.  
 If a student skips class on Monday, the natural consequence is that he will probably do poorly on the pop-quiz on Tuesday, which he must take with the other students if he has not note of excuse...</description></item><item><title>Re: Discipline without punishment, is it possible?</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm#138185</link><pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 06:23:48 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:138185</guid><dc:creator>Waïti</dc:creator><slash:comments>4</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm#138185</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments28-138185.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>Are you talking about corporal punishment or just punishment in general ? I don't think resorting to physical violence as a means to enforce discipline is necessarily needed. But I do not conceive of discipline without punishement. Nor do I conceive it without reward for that matter.</description></item><item><title>Re: Discipline without punishment, is it possible?</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm#138170</link><pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 06:23:48 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:138170</guid><dc:creator>Robyn Terri</dc:creator><slash:comments>5</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm#138170</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments28-138170.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>What do you mean by
punishment? If you mean physical punishment like smacking a child than
yes discipline without physical punishment is certainly possible. I
would think it is prefered, though it does require more self discipline
from the adult as well as more thought and creativity. 
A child needs to learn that there are negative consequences to negative behavior. 
Is speaking firmly to correct a child or growling at them considered punishment?</description></item><item><title>Discipline without punishment, is it possible?</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm</link><pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 05:23:48 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:138021</guid><dc:creator>gurban</dc:creator><slash:comments>6</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/DisciplineWithoutPunishmentPossible/blbjp/post.htm</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments28-138021.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>In education it is mostly said that children/learners should not be pumished. Is discipline without punishment possible? Please send your comments, ideas.</description></item></channel></rss>