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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://www.englishforums.com/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>General English Vocabulary &amp; Idiom Questions</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/GeneralEnglishVocabularyIdiom-Questions/Forum29.htm</link><description>Help with defining words and idioms, and new words and idioms that you've learnt</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>XMOD (Build: 3615.39139)</generator><item><title>Re: Etymology of "there is no love lost"</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#886564</link><pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2009 14:00:10 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:886564</guid><dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#886564</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments29-886564.xml</wfw:commentRss><description /></item><item><title>Re: Etymology of "there is no love lost"</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#528319</link><pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 03:14:55 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:528319</guid><dc:creator>Delmobile</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#528319</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments29-528319.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>You may find this explanation interesting, although it doesn&amp;#39;t give a definitive origin for the phrase.   http://www.phrases.org.uk/bulletin_board/13/messages/246.html</description></item><item><title>Re: Etymology of "there is no love lost"</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#528309</link><pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 03:14:55 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:528309</guid><dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator><slash:comments>2</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#528309</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments29-528309.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>I agree with you. It seems to mean the opposite, and I believe I heard it used in this opposite sense in a play The Perilous Streets of Los Angeles (Parson&amp;#39;s Nose) and I wanted to find the etymology, but all I could find was your question. My email is     If you have found the etymology, let me know.</description></item><item><title>Re: Etymology of "there is no love lost"</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#448927</link><pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 03:14:55 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:448927</guid><dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator><slash:comments>3</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#448927</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments29-448927.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>I think the etymology is uncertain, but it seems to be a sort of sarcastic understatement. My understanding is that the phrase, "love lost" started to appear in the late 16th Century. 
 For instance, in Wuthering Heights, if Catherine and Heathcliff had not been in love, there would have been no "love lost" in the fact that circumstances and societal constraints kept them apart. 
 But there obviously WAS "love lost," and therein is the dramatic tension. 
 The phrase seems to literally mean apathy--but is colloquially used to indicate active dislike.</description></item><item><title>Re: Etymology of "there is no love lost"</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#400113</link><pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 02:14:55 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:400113</guid><dc:creator>Clive</dc:creator><slash:comments>4</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#400113</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments29-400113.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>Hi, 
 There is no love lost between them." means "they are at odds." but I'd like to know what the etymology of the idiom is. It seems to mean the opposite thing without the knowledge of what it really means.  
 I don't see it as a matter of etymology. I think it's a question of understanding the meaning clearly.  
 They dislike each other absolutely, completely. 
 Any love, even a tiny amount, that was between them would be wasted, ie 'lost'. But there is not even a tiny amount of love between them , so 'there is no love wasted (ie lost ) between them'. 
 Best wishes, Clive</description></item><item><title>Re: Etymology of "there is no love lost"</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#400054</link><pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 03:14:55 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:400054</guid><dc:creator>pieanne</dc:creator><slash:comments>5</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#400054</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments29-400054.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>Imagine a bucket that would be filled with love (as if it were milk or water, or any liquid). If some got spilled (lost), it wouldn't really matter, for the bucket would still be full of it. 
 Now if there's not much love in the bucket, and some got lost/spilled, it would be a problem, because there would be as much less in the bucket - you would miss the spilled part. 
 Well, that's the way I understand it!</description></item><item><title>Re: Etymology of "there is no love lost"</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#399963</link><pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 03:14:55 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:399963</guid><dc:creator>Feebs11</dc:creator><slash:comments>6</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm#399963</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments29-399963.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>It just means "There isn't any love lost between them". It is a rhythmic structure that sounds well. I don't think you can say that there is a specific or identifiable etymology for the sentence, it is very common and can certainly be traced back in literature for at least two hundred years.</description></item><item><title>Etymology of "there is no love lost"</title><link>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm</link><pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 03:14:55 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:399931</guid><dc:creator>Teleostomi</dc:creator><slash:comments>7</slash:comments><comments>http://www.englishforums.com/English/EtymologyLoveLost/vngxg/post.htm</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments29-399931.xml</wfw:commentRss><description>"There is no love lost between them." means "they are at odds." but I'd like to know what the etymology of the idiom is. It seems to mean the opposite thing without the knowledge of what it really means.</description></item></channel></rss>