http://www.englishforums.com/English/TopicOfTheMoment/Forum38.htmDiscussions on anything and everything, all while helping you learn English. (Just like being in a bar!) Please register if you wish to post here.enXMOD (Build: 3607.32596)http://www.englishforums.com/English/TheAttractionOfWomenToMen/nnpx/post.htm#68747Wed, 22 Apr 2009 17:26:40 GMT946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:68747ericupsman0http://www.englishforums.com/English/TheAttractionOfWomenToMen/nnpx/post.htm#68747http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments38-68747.xmlThanks, Nona! Great advice!http://www.englishforums.com/English/TheAttractionOfWomenToMen/nnpx/post.htm#68703Thu, 22 Jan 2009 18:26:40 GMT946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:68703nona the brit1http://www.englishforums.com/English/TheAttractionOfWomenToMen/nnpx/post.htm#68703http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments38-68703.xml1) Make us chuckle - and not by repeating whatever lame joke your colleague at work told you, show a bit of real wit. 2) Don't take yourself too seriously. If you can laugh at yourself it's a good sign that you are secure and confident. 3) Be interested in us. Ask us questions and lead into a real conversation. Remember that it is supposed to be reciprical. Too many men are 'So what do you do?' ' I'm a lion tamer.' 'Really? That's interesting. I'm an IT buyer and I blah blah blah.....three computers........my own desk......blah blah............Trevor the fish...........blah blah blah...........brown of course..........blah blah boring blah.' (not that I am saying IT buyers are boring, it's just an example) 4) Have...http://www.englishforums.com/English/TheAttractionOfWomenToMen/nnpx/post.htm#68524Sun, 22 Feb 2009 18:26:40 GMT946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:68524ericupsman2http://www.englishforums.com/English/TheAttractionOfWomenToMen/nnpx/post.htm#68524http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments38-68524.xmlThanks for your response. I have no problem attracting women physically, but just thought some advice from a female may help in other areas as well. Thanks again, Erichttp://www.englishforums.com/English/TheAttractionOfWomenToMen/nnpx/post.htm#67960Wed, 22 Apr 2009 17:26:40 GMT946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:67960Guest3http://www.englishforums.com/English/TheAttractionOfWomenToMen/nnpx/post.htm#67960http://www.englishforums.com/English/comments38-67960.xmlFirst of all, you can't generalise because women aren't all attracted to the same sort of guy. Some women put good looks and big muscles at the top of their list (don't get me wrong though, some women think that big muscles are vile), while others prioritise qualities like a good sense of humour, confidence and intelligence. I know that this is the most cliche' and boring advice that I can give you, but the best thing IS to just be yourself. That's the only way that you will attract the kind of woman that you want after all, someone who likes you for who you are. Quality over quantity! I can't tell you where the line between confidence and arrogance is, but I think you know that already. I'm a woman, and to me,arrogance is one of the...http://www.englishforums.com/English/TheAttractionOfWomenToMen/nnpx/post.htmFri, 22 May 2009 17:26:40 GMT946f00bb-57d3-4b7b-a9a2-059b5341af52:67895ericupsman4http://www.englishforums.com/English/TheAttractionOfWomenToMen/nnpx/post.htmhttp://www.englishforums.com/English/comments38-67895.xmlI read a previous post regarding the different reasons men and women are initially attracted to one another. I would like to further that somewhat and would love to hear more comments from women...... As honest as I can be: I am a fairly young guy (32 yrs old) and am in good physical shape. I get a lot of compliments that suggest I am attractive. However, I could use a little advice when initially meeting women. Am I too confident? Not confident enough? I haven't put a finger on what women are really attracted to. I try to be myself. I am very energetic and have a great sense of humor. I've read that it's all about confidence and security. What is the line between confident and arrogant? It's almost as if women prefer a child inside...