>> I got what you meant MrP ... When i make a conversation , i use them (um, er..etc) involuntary. For example if we were talking face to face , i would say 'i use them ,umm,invotuntary.' . Because i would think to find a fit word... In

I got what you meant MrP ... When i make a conversation , i use them (um, er..etc) involuntary. For example if we were talking face to face , i would say 'i use them ,umm,invotuntary.' . Because i would think to find a fit word... In my opinion

Oh yes, use "and stuff" all the time. Use it for "etc.", or when you can't think of anything else to say, e.g. _____ ESL student: "So, how was your weekend, MrP?" MrP: "It was, um, ok." ESL student: "And did you do anything