re: Bear/Bare With Me. page 4
I was about to type "please bare with me" into an email, but as I was about to type "bare", I realized that I wasn't sure which [Bare/Bear] was the correct usage of the phrase.
Doing my own research into it, there are entire blogs dedicated to the history of the phrase, but each with only one particular spelling, not mentioning the other, and each offering possible origins based on the single spelling they chose.
Most of these seem strictly opinion, leading to my question; Is there an official answer to this, as in a source to reference it against?
Comments (Page 4)
In 'bare naked', the 'bare' adds emphasis.
Clive
I was always told it is "bare with me", as a "bear is an animal"
I have had people tell me before it is "bear with me", and even corrected someone once.
Whilst I can read the logic here and see that "bare" is similar to "bare naked", and to "bare ones soul" means to expose you inner most self and so on, in this context I think it is not the same meaning.
They are people here saying this term would mean to ask someone to get naked with you, however the term "bare it in mind" does not mean keep a naked thought in mind, merely to hold onto that thought.
So as far as I was always taught and know the meaning of "bare with me" is the same, and not asking someone to get naked but just to hold on.
I was always told that the use of "Bear" in this respect was more of an american way of saying this phrase, which may shed some light as well as to why there are so many different interpretations of this phrase.
I believe that there is some group of people who are trying to promote "bear with me" and using the interpretation of "bare" as "bare naked" as the correct version using the same logic as the reason, however as far as I have always been told this is wrong, and for this word there are two different meanings.
Bare means naked. "Bare with me" would mean "Get naked with me"
Have you actually read this thread?
Have you actually checked a dictionary?
Clive