When I write, "my father-in-law, Nat Brandt." Do I capitalize father-in-law?
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No. Emotion: smile You were correct with capitalizing "Nat Brandt"

When I write " reside with maternal grandmother Terry Deer. do I capitalize maternal grandmother?

No, you don't.

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