Do You Happen To Know ...

I'm sorry but if it suggests that if person you are asking to does not know the answer, it would not matter; then why bother asking? There must be something beyond that explanation.

How about the expression: The girl in Jurasic park (1993) when it was suggested that a Rex ate a goat.

"what you don't like meat?" lawyer

"I happened to be a vegeterian!" the girl

Or when you are asking someone you do not know, " Do you happen to know where the bus station is?" I mean, you are being polite by avoiding a more direct question like Do you know where the bus station is? (I would ask that to a friend I'm visiting that lives in a place I DO not know).

Cheers both of you

Jluis

Hi Jluis,

I'm sorry but if it suggests that if person you are asking to does not know the answer, it would not matter; then why bother asking? There must be something beyond that explanation.

The politeness lies in letting the person know that it is not a big deal if they don't know the answer. I avoid embarrassing them if they don't.

As a more general comment, I ask lots of questions where the answer is in fact not very important to me. Don't you?

How about the expression: The girl in Jurasic park (1993) when it was suggested that a Rex ate a goat.

"what you don't like meat?" lawyer

"I happened to be a vegeterian!" the girl The earlier discussion was focused on the question form, Do you jhappen to know . . . ?'

Or when you are asking someone you do not know, " Do you happen to know where the bus station is?" I mean, you are being polite by avoiding a more direct question like Do you know where the bus station is? (I would ask that to a friend I'm visiting that lives in a place I DO not know). Yes. You seem to be agreeing with me, here.

Best wishes, Clive

For some people directness or being indirect is a matter of style and you can't assume you know thier intention based on your response.

If you are going to ask the question do you happen to know something (the grocery list is)....I expect you would like to know where is is located not if someone only knew. That is, you don't want a yes/no answer.

I think that if you ask ...if you happen to know...it is because you are intimidated by the person and therefore don't really say what you mean.

The same in reverse. If you want someone to be intimidated by you, make sure you answer their question directly and withough further explanation.

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Well said :-)

Rahul Lachoriya

Use the phrase "happen to ___" to talk about something that doesn't seem very likely. One way this is useful is for asking questions, even though you don't think the listener will know the answer:

Do you happen to know a guy by the name of Fred Breedlove?

In this example, you ask "Do you happen to..." because you think that the listener probably doesn't know this person. You would ask this question if this person was from the same town as Fred, or went to the same large university as Fred, or worked at the same large company.
You can also use "happen to ___" to ask questions politely, even when you do think the listener's answer will be "yes":

Excuse me, would you happen to have a pen I could borrow?

"Have", "see", and "know" are the most common verbs that follow "happen to".