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Gay is in fashion right now. Lots of gay television shows. I don't really have an opinion on it. I just feel bad sometimes bacause it must be hard for some of them to come out of the closet if their family friends and/or society is old fashioned.
Yeah, it's really hard for them to get out of the closet. Especially if someone locks it while they are in there, and then goes out dancing at Joes All Night Fun Joint, loses the key, and forgets all about it!
Has this ever happened to you?
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well some peopel like to beat each other up when they are having sex..some people like to molest children..etc...some people become heroin addicts..
they dont choose to be that way....but does that stop it from ebing wrong???

no.some things are plain wrong....you might say that two people are consenting to be gays.so theyre not hurting anyone..
but gay people dont exist in vaccum..they exist in society...aids came from the gay community..
an evil doesnt exist in isolation..gay as lifestyle choice has long reaching consequence..

well personally i dont have a problem with gay people oer se..live and let live.,,but ideologically...their is no way i can say its acceptable..and the worst thing is the way it has become acceptable and in the open...
homosexaulity has always existed..and tolerated in asian countries......but it was always kep in acertain place..whee it belonged..not in the mainstream...its part of the asian unbderstanding of cosmology...everything has its palce..
bring ing homosexualit out in the open and making it acceptable creates whole new set of problems..and confuses ana lareayd confusing world...once its become ok..,you have gay adoption..gay marriage...gay this and that...
pretyy soon as the dream of red chamber said`when hte real becomes unreal,the unrela becomes real'.

people become gay because of certain evils that create the condition for someone to be gay..evil creates greater evil.......like women who are abused by men..or who have fathers who were abusive to theirs mothers...etc....create lesbians..overbearing mothers..create gay men..thats a simplified explanation..but all the gay peole i know..have that kind of history..
so if you dont want gay children...be careful how youre treat your children...hehe

al sexaul perversion comes from a mind andsoul that has been corrupted at some level...and has lost its basic human sense of humilty towards itself...
gay is wrong..you just have to look at nature...
everything in the world is created in pairs..male and female...it is out of the interaction of yin and yang...that everything is created.....gay peole are running against the current of nature..the way things are....
yang with yang= death
that is a basic law of the universe..that is obvious toeveryone..

i wish to be gay was ok..but it isnt...that a fact of life...not just social,but cosmoligal....who are we to argue wit hnature...?????
Hey all...Well, first of all, I agree very much with Anangelhascome, related to what she says that homosexuality is related to abusement and bad relationships between parents and children...
Myself, I don't support gays and I don't like them...at least in my country (Chile), they are famous about abusing children...I'm a religious person, and I guess that the Bible speaks against them, and I think that there's a why that men and women have different bodies, what would be of the human being if we all chose to be gay? Now gays asks heterosexuals to be tolerant to them, now they have to learn to be tolerant with us when we don't like gays...now for what I've seen, if it was up to them, we'd be all gays...
With respect...
Ed.
I would like to comment on what anangelhascome said:

"well some peopel like to beat each other up when they are having sex..some people like to molest children..etc...some people become heroin addicts..
they dont choose to be that way....but does that stop it from ebing wrong???"

So - 2 people who are adults decide in their own home that they are up for rough sex. I'm not for it personally but if they enjoy it, and no one is particularly harmed apart from say scratches or bruises - its their business not my own. I do believe however the line should be drawn where the chance of real harm is made were for example if blood is drawn. That can lead to disease and infection. Either way, their business. If they're both happy, so am I.

Some people like to molest children. I agree. It disturbs the core of my being that someone would want to rob a child of so much. The paedophile, may not choose to be that way, but chooses to act on their wants.

The massive difference therein lies in the fact that children get emotionally and psychologically scared after such, often continued, abuse occurs. I fail to see how, a loving relationship between two consenting tax-paying adults can be compared to act heinous acts.

Heroine or any other kind of addict is the person out of all the above people mentioned who have the largest of all choices. With therapy and the appropriate support and will, they get to make the choice to say 'no' to drugs. Again, taking drugs is harming one's own body and cripples their loved ones who have to support them (hopefully) during their very trying time.

Thus far, I fail to see the relation between the above 3 examples and homosexuality - simply because there is none.

" no.some things are plain wrong....you might say that two people are consenting to be gays.so theyre not hurting anyone..
but gay people dont exist in vaccum..they exist in society...aids came from the gay community..
an evil doesnt exist in isolation..gay as lifestyle choice has long reaching consequence.. "

Incorrect. Research your words. In 1978, gay men from the US and Sweden, and heterosexual people in Tanzania and Haiti began showing signs of what be later called AIDS.

I always found the idea of a "gay lifestyle" intrigueing. Yes there are gay bars, and areas renound for their gay population but people who don't go to gay bars, or don't go to bars at all - are they still gay? Ofcourse they are. Equally there is no gay lifestyle, because each person has a lifestyle of their own. Just like there is no straight lifestyle.

As AIDS was found both in heterosexual and homosexual people - what are said consequences deriving from gay people?

"well personally i dont have a problem with gay people oer se..live and let live.,,but ideologically...their is no way i can say its acceptable..and the worst thing is the way it has become acceptable and in the open...
homosexaulity has always existed..and tolerated in asian countries......but it was always kep in acertain place..whee it belonged..not in the mainstream...its part of the asian unbderstanding of cosmology...everything has its palce..
bring ing homosexualit out in the open and making it acceptable creates whole new set of problems..and confuses ana lareayd confusing world...once its become ok..,you have gay adoption..gay marriage...gay this and that...
pretyy soon as the dream of red chamber said`when hte real becomes unreal,the unrela becomes real'. "

So you're saying that gay people should live a life on their own and deny their feelings? Or saying they should get married, have kids and secretly fantasize of being with people of their of gender? Or better still, commit suicide? I find it hard to believe how all these people's misery could help society. And equally ideologically fooling oneselves, and fooling one's loved ones is what I find unacceptable. Forcing people to be miserable is unacceptable. Everything has its place - as do gay people, and not shying away from themselves.

How is the fact that people are being honest about who they love and who loves them in return creating problems? And problems of what kind? Same-sex marriage is about how tax-paying citizens' desire for the right of, in case of need, their partner choosing what happens to them and to their belonging - it gives them the right of kin. Adoption should be about giving needy children the right of a loving home which is suitable. Please, note gay people may adopt in most places, just not as a couple. Not to mention studies have showed that children brought up in a *** household were about as gay or straight as any other child brought up in a 'traditional' household.

"people become gay because of certain evils that create the condition for someone to be gay..evil creates greater evil.......like women who are abused by men..or who have fathers who were abusive to theirs mothers...etc....create lesbians..overbearing mothers..create gay men..thats a simplified explanation..but all the gay peole i know..have that kind of history..
so if you dont want gay children...be careful how youre treat your children...hehe"

People don't become gay. They are gay. Some realise at a very young age, some realise when they are older, but say on a certain level they always knew. I'm not going to question how many gay people you actually do know however rest assured, many more people who go through abusive relationships are straight. And even more gay people went through a perfectly average childhood with no traumatic events.

As well, as perfectly as you may treat your children, being gay isn't a simple
action-->reaction thing. Science still doesn't have the answer about homosexuality - probably because there is no such things as "homosexulatity" or "heterosexuality". Human sexuality is part of a continuum.

"al sexaul perversion comes from a mind andsoul that has been corrupted at some level...and has lost its basic human sense of humilty towards itself...
gay is wrong..you just have to look at nature...
everything in the world is created in pairs..male and female...it is out of the interaction of yin and yang...that everything is created.....gay peole are running against the current of nature..the way things are....
yang with yang= death
that is a basic law of the universe..that is obvious toeveryone.. "

For one thing Homosexuality was removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual Of Mental Disorders (DSM) in 1973. So calling homosexuality a "perversion" is your own personal belief. How can something corrupted show love and be a constructive member of society? If homosexual behaviour exists not only in us, but in other creatures it defies the very defintion of natural - not happening in nature.

The concept of yin and yang is a deep one, with many facets. If you got any man and woman, doesn't mean they have found balance. Their characters must be complimentary, and thus produce something more than simply the addition of their parts. Same with gay people. Judging that gay people are going against the law of nature, is a simplistic perspective based soley on genitilia.

Not only is it not obvious - I'm afraid I disagree with you.

I would also like to excuse myself due to the long post. But certain things needed to be rebutted appropriately.

Za-Zen
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Well said Za-Zen.
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I think some gay people can't bear the thought that many, probably most, other people do not approve of their bedroom activities. Some do not seem capable of tolerating the fact that many, probably most, people actually disapprove. They should be as tolerant of other peoples positions as they expect other people to be of theirs. Anything else is hypocritical and, I must confess, makes me angry!Emotion: angry
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