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In the following situations, should person X avoid saying or using the following expressions when talking to Y? I'm afraind these expressions are rude or immodest or unladylike.

Situation 1: X is a woman and Y is her boss, in formal speaking..
Situation 2: X is a man and Y is his boss, in formal speaking..
Situation 3: X is a woman and Y is her colleague, in formal speaking.
Situation 4: X is a woman and Y is her friend, in daily casulal speaking.

Expression 1: I got it.
Expression 2: I got you.
Expression 3: Got it.

Expression 4: Got you.
Expression 5: Gotcha.
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"I got it." can be OK to say to a boss, depending on the tone of voice. It means "I understood you perfectly." If you say it with enthusiasm, then it can mean that "I understand what you want me to do, and will start immediately to get it done."

"Got it" is more informal, but can have the same meaning.

Although these can mean the same as "I got it", they are more personal and direct. You can use them with friends. But they can mean the same as "gotcha" too. It all depends on context and tone of voice.

Got you.
I got you.

"gotcha" means that I played a joke on you, and you fell for it. It is OK when you are joking with friends, and playing tricks on each other in fun.
AlpheccaStars"I got it." can be OK to say to a boss, depending on the tone of voice. It means "I understood you perfectly." If you say it with enthusiasm, then it can mean that "I understand what you want me to do, and will start immediately to get it done."

I agree with AS. In spoken English, tone of voice is perhaps, the most critical element. "I got it", said straight forward is fine. However, "I GOT it!" could be extremely sarcastic. You can do the same with virtually any spoken word. Body language also adds a lot in spoken word.

This is why you must be much more careful with the written word than the spoken word. There is not tone of voice or body language clues. Experts say that in spoken English that up to 80% of the message is conveyed with tone of voice and body language.
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Woow!!

How wonderful!!

Got you!!

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Just to add to the posts here, there are very few situations in which the suitability of the words will vary on whether it's a man or woman saying the words.

Also, there must be a bit of regional use on "gotcha." It certainly means "I successfully played my joke on you," but it's not uncommon (with the right tone) for "gotcha" to mean, "Okay, I fully understand what you're saying/what you just said."
Thanks for your nice help!

Can you tell me some examples of "situations in which the suitability of the words will vary on whether it's a man or woman saying the words"?

Thanks!
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northwindThanks for your nice help!

Can you tell me some examples of "situations in which the suitability of the words will vary on whether it's a man or woman saying the words"?

Thanks!

I'm pregnant.

Oh, sorry.

How nice!

Got you!

Thanks!