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It's quite difficult to write a letter to a friend whose father is seriously ill and sounds not so good. I can think of nothing but "sorry to hear that" ,but that sounds not sincere enough. What else I could say, can I say "I'm writing to convey my sincere sympathy to..." Will that hurt too? I would appreciate your ideas! Thank you.
/was (am ?)/ <<<--- means I don't know which is correct here- was or am? Please suggest the correct form.
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1) I am greatly saddened to learn[or hear] about your father's ill health.......
Yes, that works.
2) I was (am ?) extremely worried to know....
Probably not. You are not worried. You might be concerned?  is definitely.
2a) I am concerned about your father's illness. [sounds a bit odd to me, but it is okay. We are usually not concerned about friend's family illnesses, but sometimes we are.]
3) I am deeply distressed to know....
Yes, that works, though it does seem dramatic.
I hope this helps.
It's very nice of you explaining the statements given above.
People are waiting to help.
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