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true lol and surely many a different, fnaststic experience can b enjouyed b4 marriage whihc cud make marriage stronger?
the Bible (KJV) clearly states that it is wrong.
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BlueclownIn our country , we think that sex is just a part of love .And sex just stems from love . If we don't have love when having sex , we are just like animals . So sex is the challenge for people who are too hurried . And they should proof their love before doing that . Besides , teenagers are not old enough to have a ripe love and they are not old enough to be ready for that important thing . Accidentally , if the girl is pregnant , some irresponsible boys will run away . And the girl who is not ready to give birth { because of her young anatomy} may die or can't be pregnant again when destroying the baby inside . That's will be very dangerous .

Hi Blueclown. The same is in my country. But you know, people's understanding of marriage and love is changing as life changes. For me, I am firmly believed that 'marriage' is not equal to 'love', which doesn't mean that can not be, however. You can feel and live LOVE without, before or beyond (i mean divorce case) marriage. Marriage is just a good rule for society to govern and obligate unresponsible and non-accountable parents.
I'm OK with sex before marriage. If people are attracted to each other or love each other(or both)-why not?
I think sex before marriage is wrong im 17 im a girl and a have a boyfriend i have had sex in the past but it is not right me and my boyfriend have lost of problems because of that i was his first and sometimes i wish i could be too you just need to hold off on it for now until you are married it makes it a whole lot better i have a religious belief so it helps me too
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I feel sex before marriage is no problem or even necessary if and only if the young couple are really ready to marry. Here in Japan, we have a phrase "Narita divorce", which means "newly weds getting divorces as soon as they got back to Narita international airport from their honeymoons". Narita divorces would be a bit too exaggerated cases but about 40 % of divorces in Japan take place between the couples who have lived together only for less than 5 years. The statistics said the main reason of such young couples' divorces is filed as personality conflicts, but it is speculated that the real reason would be the sexual discrepancy they found after marriage. If they experienced sex before marriage, they could understand they are sexually mismatched and could avoid such time and money wasteful marriage and divorce ceremonies. If I were to marry again, I would surely try to have sex with the partner I want to marry before marriage.

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I think we are forgetting the original question. "Sex before marriage......I'm not sure? ....Well of course your not sure.....you've never tried it!. It's a bit like trying to imagine if you like broccoli or not, without tasting it!.

Blueclown go ahead and try some, then you'll be sure. You can always stop if you don't like the taste.Emotion: wink

Lionel
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Hi Blueclown,
Blueclown sex just stems from love . If we don't have love when having sex , we are just like animals .
teenagers are not old enough to have a ripe love and they are not old enough to be ready for that important thing . Accidentally , if the girl is pregnant , some irresponsible boys will run away . And the girl who is not ready to give birth { because of her young anatomy} may die or can't be pregnant again when destroying the baby inside . That's will be very dangerous .
Very Impressive, for a 17 years old boy I must say. It's a point of view many people will argue on, though. You've listed some of the upshots that having sex too early may bring about, and there are people that will go along with you. I really think if you can think the way you just express what I assume is your views on the matter, then, not only you can handle the situation, but also have the answer to your question.

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Lionel In ParisBlueclown go ahead and try some, then you'll be sure. You can always stop if you don't like the taste.Emotion: wink

Lionel

I completely agree with Lionel. Emotion: smile
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